How To Be Authentic In Yourself: 7 Steps to Mompreneur Success

In the thick of life, it’s common for anyone to lose their sense of identity and purpose. And when you’re a mompreneur, learning how to be authentic to yourself can feel like climbing Mount Everest. If you’re in the process of relearning yourself and fighting imposter syndrome, let me help you as well.

In this post, let’s talk about ways you can practice authenticity, discover yourself yet again, and become successful in every role you play— partner, parent, entrepreneur… you name it! Ready to find out how to be authentic? Read on!

How to be authentic for entrepreneurial success

Soul-searching for your authentic self is one of the most important pieces of your life’s puzzle. Therefore, I understand if you’ve been seeing this as a hurdle you can’t overcome just yet. 

But as someone who’s been through the same struggles, I come to you with 7 steps you can take to become a successful woman and find your authentic self:

1. Reflect on your core values

Before moving forward, you’ll need to return to your core values. These are the non-negotiables that define who you are at your core. What do you stand for? What principles guide your decisions? Taking the time to reflect on these questions will help you realign your actions with what truly matters to you.

Imagine your values as a compass—when you know what direction you’re heading, it’s easier to stay on course. Write down your values, revisit them often, and ask yourself whether your daily actions are aligned with these guiding principles. This practice not only keeps you grounded but also ensures that your journey to authenticity is rooted in what you truly believe.

2. Ground yourself in your origin and roots

If you’re learning how to be authentic, you’ll be on a journey of self-discovery. This road might come with its fair share of bums but when you immerse yourself back into your storyline, you’ll quickly see how your past influences your present and how they collectively determine your future until you intervene. 

Journaling your story right from your childhood can be a great way to see the bigger picture and understand why you are the way you are. Reflect on your culture, your parents’ parenting style, your upbringing as well as any key events that shaped you. 

3. Don’t seek validation externally

This might sound like a bitter reality check, but not everything is about you. In your journey to learn how to be authentic, you’ll need to remind yourself that: You’ll never (and shouldn’t) be liked by everyone.

The sooner you accept this, the easier it becomes to stop relying on others for validation. Seeking external approval often leads to compromising your values and dimming your unique light to fit in. Instead, focus on validating yourself by staying true to who you are and what you believe in.

Ask yourself: If no one were watching, would you still do this? If the answer is yes, then you’re on the right path. Authenticity isn’t about pleasing others; it’s about living a life that feels true to you, even if it means standing alone at times. Let go of the need for external approval, and watch how liberating it is to just be yourself.

4. Set healthy boundaries

So far, you’ve been reflecting and aligning yourself internally to find your authentic self. Now, it’s time to bring the same scrutiny outside yourself! Reflect on your current relationships and notice if they align with your core values. If your current relationships don’t align with your core values and don’t serve you rightly, it’s time to let them go. 

Your authentic self can only come forward when you set boundaries that protect it. If you are a people pleaser, this is even more important for you to do because the codependency on past relationships and the inability to say no will become the killer of the very growth you’re seeking!

5. Prioritize mindfulness and self-care

Let’s face it: life as a mompreneur can be chaotic. It is in this chaos that we recognize the importance of mindfulness, affirmations, and self-care. Whenever you feel like you’re not sure how to be authentic in your own self, let the practice of mindfulness bring you back into the present. 

Mindfulness can help you develop self-awareness and a connection to your desires, values, and independence. It creates a safe and positive flow of energy, allowing you to reconfigure your thought process and practice gratitude and authenticity in your actions. 

6. Be a growing mompreneur

If you struggle with self-improvement, it might be a sign that you’re not progressing with a growth mindset. Oftentimes, we spiral into a judgmental and closed-off attitude and compare our lowlights with someone’s highlights. 

But this is exactly what your authentic self is hiding behind. Empower yourself with self-improvement activities that allow you to propel your growth. Actively push your own learning boundaries to realize that you’re capable of great things and learn from setbacks when they happen. This would allow you to see life in an inspiring light rather than a daunting abyss. 

Not sure what growth-focused activities you can invest in? Here are some ideas:

• Podcasts focused on mompreneurs (like mine)
• Self-improvement and mindset books
• Work with a mindset coach
• Join online community groups
• Participate in workshops

7. Reflect on the influence of your maternal role

Let this settle: Allow your role as a mother to ground you into your authentic self. Now, read it again. 

Sometimes, our authentic self is tucked in our motherhood. So, you should search for it in the lessons and values you teach your children. Explore how you set expectations for them and deal with their mistakes. Then, allow the same set of rules to bring your most authentic self outwards. 

Final Thoughts

Your authenticity is your greatest asset but embracing your authentic self is a tricky journey of self-discovery, alignment, and growth. In this blog, we’ve talked about 7 ways you can learn how to be authentic and achieve the success you’ve always wanted! 

If you want to dive deeper into this topic with additional tips and my personal experience with the process, tune into the Legacy Building Mamas Podcast. Join like-minded strong women to keep you going in our Facebook community! We cover everything from building your authentic self to balancing the mom life, giving you practical strategies and field-tested insights to help you build the life of your dreams.